Many Thoughts to Ponder

A Fundraiser's Dream

2011-04-19T17:17:00.000-07:00

Michael Douglas

The foundation at Jewish General Hospital in Montreal definitely has something to celebrate. They are holding a gala that has Michael Douglas as a keynote guest and speaker. How many hospitals will be able to tout this epic tale? I can just imagine the awe in the air in the halls of Jewish General Hospital. Douglas will be attending with his star struck wife Catherine Zeta-Jones.

Douglas is so grateful to the Montreal hospital staff for detecting his throat cancer and he wants to give back by volunteering to be a headliner at their upcoming gala. Douglas has agreed to also participate in a pre-gala meet and greet that will give donors an opportunity to rub shoulder to shoulder with the Hollywood couple.

I will be waiting to hear how much money is raised through this high profile event. One of the auction items up for bid - a round of golf with Douglas and Zeta-Jones at a club near their vacation home in Montreal.

Having Douglas and Zeta-Jones attend this event is a blessing and Jewish General Hospital is very fortunate. Opportunities like this are rare and almost never come free. This is truly a fundraiser's dream and I'm sure will be a hot topic in the health care community in Montreal for a long time to come.

Kudos to the staff of Jewish General Hospital for diligently detecting the cancer in Douglas' throat that many health care professionals had previously missed and to Douglas and Zeta-Jones for giving back.

I wish I could attend this prestigious event. Or better yet, be able to add this event to my event management list on my resume.

Japan Then and Now

2011-03-29T19:52:00.000-07:00

White Water Rafting on the Tone River
(Nancy, Chris, Alistair and me)

In 2002, I had the absolute pleasure of making a journey to Japan. My destina-tion was Gunma in a town called Mae-bashi and my main reason for the visit was my niece who was teaching English for the JET program.

It was June 2, 2002 when my plane was set to leave Toronto, Ontario and would fly me direct to Narita airport in Tokyo. My journey would take me to the next day and would last a total of approximately 28 hours.

I spent two and a half weeks in Japan and was fortunate to visit many different areas including: Tokyo Disneyland, white water rafting in Gunma's mountainous region on the Tone River, Takasaki and a mini vacation to Okinawa.

Karaoke was one the most enjoyable experiences of my trip. In Japan you can pay a flat rate to rent a karaoke room with just your friends. Also included in the flat rate was all the alcohol you could drink. In the room you have retro type couches, tables, TV, karaoke machine, microphone, tambourine, song listings book, a remote to type in the code for the song and a telephone handy to call up your bartender to order another round. Who couldn't find fun with that list of goodies? The group I went with sure enjoyed the goodies to their full extent.

When in Okinawa, I heard someone say it was Japan's Hawaii. The weather was parallel and the fresh fruit was any person's dream. I became a lover of pineapple while there. The hotel we stayed at was right on the beach. I swam in the Pacific ocean for the first time in my life. I bought Shisha's while I was there. These are lion like creatures that will protect your house from evil spirits. You are supposed to place them close and face them toward the door of your house.

Disneyland Tokyo was exactly like Disney World in Fort Lauderdale Florida. I've been to both now and feel that Tokyo is more scenic with the unique trees and plants. The rides were the same with the exception that everything was spoken in Japanese because most of the people there were in fact Japanese.

White water rafting on the Tone River was a first experience for me and what a first experience it was. While jumping off a cliff, my niece's husband lost his grip on the guides life rope. Moving quickly into rescue mode, we all jumped into the Tone River to chase him down the river. The current was so strong in that river, but we were all able to catch him and the raft. I never knew I could swim like that. We all high-fived with our paddles when we knew we were all safe and sound inside the raft again. That is a day I will never forget.

Dickens Pub was the place to watch World Cup Soccer and eat English style fish and chips. That was a place we frequented along with a place called TKO. I believe that stood for Total Knock Out - the guy was a boxing fan. His name was Sho and he was a gracious soul.

Getting lost in Japan was also an unforgettable experience. Not knowing enough Japanese to get me further than to the taxi place to get to the train station was quite a challenge. When I realized I had spent all my taxi fare the night before, walking home was even better. Many people tried to help me but our language barrier was too great. I ended up trying to play charades with a Japanese couple in an effort to find a land mark that happened to be a bird symbol. It was funny when the Japanese couple came back to tell me I was close to the bird. They were pointing and flapping their arms as a bird its wings to covey to me that I was near my destination. Just a really hilarious moment that I remember. I instinctently followed the train tracks and once I found the train station, I was able to find my way to the apartment just fine. I made it safely and it only took about an hour and a half. Another experience I won't forget.

The bullet train was just like the name suggests. The regular train was fast enough but the bullet train made it seem slow. The bullet train travels at about 185 miles per hour. It was impossible to take a picture out of the window.

Snacks on the regular train were funny: teeny shrimp, slivers of almonds, tiny fish with eyes and odorless garlic and sweet potato. Some other things I noticed were: the carrots were gigantic, tomatoes were small and the bread was delicious. They had the most humongous roses ever and can preserve them to be as perfect as the day they bloomed.

I found the people in Japan friendly, hard working and honest; and the energy I felt while there was incredible. I believe that because of the high level of energy I felt, my jet lag wasn't so severe. The sun came up at four in the morning.

I am sad over the recent events in Japan with the earthquake and tsunami along with the nuclear disaster that happened March 11, 2011. The area that I visited didn't receive the extreme tragic events that northern regions like Sendai has. My heart and prayers are with the people of Japan for both their human and physical loss. The Japanese people should be given accolades for handling such a horrible situation with such grace.

Farmer's and their Green Thumb

2011-03-01T18:20:00.000-08:00

"MOMENTS OF REFLECTION"
FINE ART PHOTOGRAPHY - ELLIOT TESKEY

I grew up as a farm kid and worked many years on the land. I'm not going to say it was an easy life because it was hard work, but at the end of the day when the crops were harvested, it was a time for celebration and rest. County living is spectacular and views are breathtaking and invokes peace. This is soon to become a distant memory. Good things rarely grow in Ontario anymore.

Government has taken the farm life away simply by not supporting it. They have ruined farming in Ontario. It is a shame that our once diverse market has turned to virtually non-existent. Our premier does not believe in rural Ontario. He has proven this time and time again. His green initiative is the icing on the cake. Soon our beautiful land will be covered with solar panels and wind turbines. Our breathtaking views will be scathed and gone forever.

I have a problem with prime farm land being used for wind and solar projects. Any farmer who allows his land to be ruined by these projects should give up the right to be called a farmer. A true farmer grows product that feeds mouths not transmission lines. It sickens me that there are people who are starving in this world and we are using prime land for this experimental, trendy green initiative.

When these solar panels and wind turbines are worn out and the developers are long gone, who will de-comission them? The farmer better not be crying when the responsibility falls upon him. He better not cry because his land is no longer fit for growing crops. I don't want to hear about it. In my mind, the day he allowed these monstrous turbines and panels to be installed on his land, he lost the right to be called a farmer.

Can someone tell me why our Ontario government is forging into this initiative without even thinking about the economic repercussions? Ratepayers are strapped month to month and the worst of the costs have not even begun to hit their peak. Jobs are scarce and government continues to dictate what is good for us. They manipulate information and increasingly take more and more of our livelihood. The goal is to be a leader in green energy initiatives. This will be a burden that will sit on the taxpayers backs for years to come.

Everywhere I turn, I hear about green energy. Green energy is viral, it doesn't matter what website I click on, what paper I pick up to read or what news program I choose to watch, I cannot escape green energy. Anything that has to have such hard sell to it, makes me want to run away. There is something seriously wrong here.

On Guard - Enjoying the Proverbial Pie

2011-02-05T16:20:00.000-08:00

Picture captured from:
http://www.johnbrent.ca/2010/09/27/the-way-things-should-be/

Being on guard is becoming such a necessary action in this day and age. If you follow media closely and think about it, you will discover that there are red flags popping up everywhere. If you were to look at life as a proverbial pie, you would quickly be able to put in perspective that most of that pie is not yours. Where do you see most of that pie being enjoyed? I would have to take it a step further. Look at the times. I’ve talked about big business before and how they are choking society as a whole. The government is guilty of taking more and more from taxpayers. We are recovering from a mini economic meltdown in Canada more notably in the US and other parts of the world and it is true that most are feeling the need to scale back. Problem is – recovery from debt is difficult for many. The rising costs of living and trying to pay off existing debt is stressful and is almost impossible to achieve. Governments continue to spend money when they too should be scaling back.

The world is full of pie takers. If you are a taxpayer and hard working individual, how could you not notice how the organizations and companies that you invest your monthly salary in are trying to take more and more of it? Contracts that are being negotiated between management and unions are becoming more and more difficult. As necessary items for life become more expensive, the companies we work for are trying very hard not to increase our means to pay for these necessaries. People who are highly educated are working for minimum to medium wage because the high paying jobs are few and far between. It is sad that a nation deeply committed to diplomacy doesn't support the jobs to go with it.

The battle will continue on and undoubtedly the backs of average citizens will become more broken. We have to stand up for what is rightfully ours - freedom to live life without oppression and sacrifice. Truthfully, if you compared Canada and US to other parts of the world, we would fare out much better and could almost feel guilty for complaining because we really truly don’t know what it is to be poor. We do however, know how it is to crave and give in to the impulses to gather material items. This is what gets so much of us in trouble. There are necessaries and there are luxuries.

We are lucky enough to live in democracy. Although, there is always cause to be on guard as this can turn opposite over time. Much in the way the government spends our money and tells us how to live. There is a little bit of that existing here in our country. We are taxed to the max and seem to just take it. The wages aren’t going up as much as the prices of everything. We are led to believe that it is good for us and it is necessary.

The revolution in Egypt that has been happening for the last 12 days is something to draw attention to. This is a heavily populated Arab county that has been under oppressive conditions for at least 30 years. Generations young and old is becoming more and more aware of the possibilities of living a free life and are standing up and saying – ENOUGH! It is wonderful. Not wonderful that some have to die in the process; but that the outcome will be liberating and will unleash the souls of these people who have lived in a coerced environment for so long. They want their ruler to surrender his post and take his hand off of Egypt and its people. President Mohamed Hosni Mubarak is struggling with that decision and does not want to let go. In 1989, the Chinese Tiananmen Square protests did not end well. They wanted a democracy and instead the army slaughtered thousands of protesters.

Burt Bacharach composed a song in 1965 called "What the World Needs Now" describing what is missing in the world. “What the world needs now is love sweet love. It’s the only thing, that there’s just too little of. What the world needs now is love sweet love. Not just for some, but for everyone.”

If the outcome in Egypt is indeed liberation (and we are all hoping for that), I can see this becoming a trend in all nations. There will be more uprising that won't come easy, but the final outcome will be a peaceful one. I vote for a reprieve and a chance for everyone to afford to eat, stay warm, have a roof overhead, clothes to wear, access to health care and have some left over to spoil themselves with, for whatever makes them happy.

The fact that we all need to stay on guard remains true. The key is to prevent government and corporation from taking too much of our proverbial pie. People grow tired of getting nothing but the crumbs. Keep your eyes, mind and heart open. There are going to constantly be those living among us who aren’t able to achieve this. The sad part is - most of them are living the high life. Somehow that doesn't seem fair does it? Maybe we can all learn from this historic event happening in Egypt and put an end to control and oppression once and for all.

"The secret of happiness is freedom. The secret of freedom is courage." - Thucydides (Ancient Greek historian and author, 460-404 BC).

Poverty becoming the majority?

2011-01-19T18:22:00.000-08:00

Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs

Is it just me or is most of the population facing a ton of debt in their lives? I recently read an article that explains that the average person owes about $47K in outstanding debt. I assume this number is not including good debt like mortgages or education loans. Recently, the federal government has changed some policy in order to deal with household debt.

When I researched debt, there seemed to be a difference between good debt and bad debt. An example of bad debt would be credit card payments or a car loan. In order to figure out your bad debt to income ratio, add up your monthly payments on bad debt and divide it by your monthly income. Take that number and times it by 100 to get a percentage. This percentage will help you define whether you are carrying a huge bad debt load. We all have good debt load so it is important to keep bad debt under control.

Even though it is common and acceptable to carry education debt, I and many others can’t help but question whether or not the stress of it all is really worth it in the end. Yes a lot of people do work at lucrative jobs that are correlated with their educational accomplishments; however on the flip side, there are more people who have one and two degree designations and are receiving less monetary gain a year than their outstanding accumulated student loans.

We do live in a time where it is absolutely normal and expected to go to college or university, or both, in order to land a job let alone a lucrative one. Twenty years ago and beyond, the job market didn’t seem so segregated, competitive and exhausting. People didn’t need the same credentials that they do now to receive opportunity in the working world. More people hired to companies were given the opportunity to learn and grow with the business and step into other career paths within. Things have changed so much and because of this, we have a huge divide between the classes. We all can’t be lawyers, bankers and doctors and CEOs. It takes us all and many different roles to make the world go around. The average cardiologist makes about 600K/yr and the average merger banker makes about $2M/yr. It seems that big business and life are grossly out of balance. Does this comparison seem fair? I have some real moral red flags going up for me here.

Yes, money makes the world go around but don’t people do a better job of that than money? Near proverty, in poverty and below poverty seem to be rearing its head and is jockeying for position as a top of mind issue for humanitarian and the media. More and more, you see articles in the media stating that the middle class as we know it is in fact disappearing. I know opinion will differ between the corporate minded and for the humanitarians. If poverty isn’t a hot topic, it surely should be. Seemingly, we care less and less about humanity and more and more about money, business and the huge corporations.

Life is hard, plain and simple. Big business is closing in on us all. They are buying more and more small to large businesses resulting in a big business acquisitioning all areas of business. I’m not sure this is the smartest thing for the rest of us. We are led to believe that the more powerful a corporation is the more they will create economic stimulus. I question this claim and more rather believe the opposite. The more they get, the more they want. This in turn makes them hang onto what they have more tightly and makes it more expensive for their product or service falling on the shoulder of the average person.

Product and service have less quality and choice is limited. Customer service is definitely not what it used to be or should be. We are controlled by merchandising. Just for an example, I spent years building up a movie library and then technology changed and made my collection irrelevant. I realize innovation is important in life but, it seems more like insanity that continues to increase. Who can keep up? Doesn't anyone get tired?

How many people do you know that lives from paycheque to paycheque? In 2010, a poll done by The Canadian Payroll Association published by the CBC revealed close to 60 percent of people live this way. Probably more than you even realize. No wonder we are living with more stress, more illness, more suffering. How long can we all go on living like this? There is no hiding from debt for the average person.

Yes there are the people who make and come from money and those of you that do, I hope you consider yourself blessed. I do believe that many of us do need to stop and evaluate our ways and could even possibly loosen the shackles of humongous debt. It does take a budget and some big lifestyle changes, but I believe it can be wrangled back in. Now is the time to cut the spending and help the stress. Face it - living in debt does create a lot of stress.

In the 1940s, Maslow explained that all humans need five basic things in order to survive in life. In this material world, how much do we really need? Exactly when did we stop sticking to the basics? Is it time to go back and better yet, can we go back?

Changing the Past – Truly we are in Dire Straits

2011-01-15T18:55:00.000-08:00

Dire Straits: http://www.lemec.net/direstraits.html

The recent announcement by the Canadian Broadcast Standards Council (CBSC) to censor the word faggot (slang – used to describe a homosexu-al) from the 26 year old song performed by Dire Straights called “Money for nothing” has caused quite a stir among the masses. The word faggot also refers to food (a kind of a meat-ball). I remember my Welsh grandmother making faggots and peas for dinner. Not one of my favourite dishes because the patties or meatballs are made of liver. I am not a fan of liver. The word faggot is being banned from being played in the song and will be deleted out when played over the radio according to the CBSC. By doing this they are: insulting the artist, misunderstanding the context of the song and are opening up a whole gamut of songs, books and quotes to discussion and possible censorship in this country.

The lyrics of “Money for Nothing”, if really studied, are nothing more than satiric words depicting the jealous types who basically did nothing with their lives. “I want my MTV” is the first line of the song. If you really want to go down this path, while they can ban the word faggot, they can condone the derogatory images and remarks of the women in the video.

I actually do get the context of the video and would never judge it to be intended to be racist. Satire is a way to make fun of many touchy subjects. The video characters remind me of the Archie Bunker type with the cigar hanging out of this mouth. Realistically, the video is well done and definitely delivers on the parody of the song’s meaning.

I can’t help but think about why we are changing this and changing that? The notion of changing words in books (specific to the word nigger) such as Huck Fin, another example we could examine. Do you think that history should be changed? I don’t. This is how we learn and grow. History teaches us where we have come from. Is it okay for the Afro-American people to still use the word amongst each other and it can’t be kept in a book written countless years ago (circa 1876)? I think not. It is a double standard. You can’t have it both ways. The written word is in fact art. Art is what it is - a story that is being told, heard or shown depending on what kind of art we are talking about. We are going too far and pretty soon, we will not be able to look at another person without worrying about whether or not they may claim that you looked at them the wrong way.

I’m opposed to the fact that we can just change something that has been around for a long period of time that is meant to entertain. Anyone with half a brain can figure out that satire is the now, just as much as it has always been intertwined in life. There is a difference in deliberate bigot-ism. Entertainment is always blown to proportion.

I think we need stop complaining and being so sensitive to many things and just instead choose to be confident. A majority of people can look at things and rise above them. Most people are accepted on every level and diversity is a common practice. Everyone can be an equal and treat others the same.

Censorship seems to be growing more and more. The last time I looked at the constitution, freedom of speech was a part of it. This seems to be losing its momentum.

I believe both this particular incident and the Huck Fin censorship are laughable. Get real people, we have far bigger things to worry about in this world like Family Guy, All in the Family, and The Simpsons. The preceding statement was me using satire.

2011 Looks Prosperous - Atrologically Speaking

2011-01-02T17:00:00.000-08:00

In my previous blog, I stated that I am glad to see 2010 go in the past and look forward to 2011 in hopes that a better year unfolds.

If you follow astrology, you may have already checked up on the year ahead. My forecast was inspiring and predicts a very prosperous financial time. There seems to be an opportunity for me to use my skills to do something that I love to do and turn it into a monetary gain.

Imagine work becoming something I actually enjoy to do. I really hope that this forecast is on the mark. I have worked very hard to educate myself, work different jobs, volunteer my time and gain valuable experience. If this year brings a bearing of the fruits of my labour, I welcome it with open arms. Bring on the prosperity - I've been waiting for this.

Check out your own forecast by Nadiya Shah.

Cartoon from Google Images found here.

Glad to see the year end?

2010-12-30T20:26:00.000-08:00

As 2010 is coming to a close, I can’t help but think of not only my life this year, but others as well. For some people there may be much nostalgia attached to this soon to be complete year. For others, the year has been an uphill battle and they are hoping that 2011 brings with it, more positive, harmonious and prosperous times.

Whatever this past year has brought to you (or taken away), there will never be another time exactly like this. There are always lessons to learn in every step of life. Sometimes the events that happen leave us wondering where the good is supposed to be. These are episodes in life that I have always been taught to think were things we weren’t supposed to understand. However, whatever has happened, it has helped someone, somewhere, somehow. This seems a nice way to think of things and quite frankly, the best way I know how to keep as positive as I possibly can.

Have you ever heard the saying “you will not be given anything you can not handle.” Did you ever notice how you thought you could never get through a challenging time, and you did? That is definitely food for thought.

As you look back through your 2010, I hope you can find the positive over the negative. If you have experienced a lot of challenge, I hope you look at yourself and the battle(s) you have endured and realize that you are stronger and better in some way for it. I hope you have more peace, more riches, more love and more laughter at the end of this year with more for 2011. A colleague of mine sent an email and one of the things he said was, "follow your passion not your pension". In these times like these where we are so focused on money and material things, look to your heart and it will never steer you wrong. Listening to your heart can be a difficult thing.

Every year, I think next year I'm going to start doing this and I'm going to stop doing that. I have made so many new year's resolutions that I have broken as quickly as I made them. This year, instead of making resolutions, I think it's better to focus on things I have learned throughout the year. Lessons learned definitely help me grow as a person. I figure the more I grow the better changes I will make in my life.

This year, I learned to definitely never take anything for granted. This is a regrettable action because you should never underestimate another’s experience, kindness, time or action. When someone treats you right, treat them right back. It is so important to life. This is what we are supposed to be like. Instead from time to time, we don’t take the time out to recognize something or someone. Think twice before going down that road. It only takes a minute or two to call, write, email or text. People really enjoy acknowledgement. They like to know their action has made a difference. The feeling of giving is a feeling that provides a feeling like no other. Study after study has proven that people feel happier when they do something to help another.

As we all say good-bye to 2010 and usher in 2011, stand up, put on your smile face and say hello to a new beginning. This is a brand new chance to change many things to the way you really want them to be. You can not change the past but you can shape the future. Even if things happen to you that are out of your control – this is an opportunity to do something better. This is an opportunity to help someone, help yourself, help others and who knows, help everyone.

Ontario's Green Energy Initiative - The straw that will break the ratepayers back?

2010-12-12T19:36:00.000-08:00

The following two videos have been on You Tube for a few weeks. They are animated videos that explain some of the issues surrounding Ontario's Green Energy Initiative. Many people who are not educated in the electricity sector would not typically know much of this information.  The Ontario government hides bitter truths behind this initiative. The videos below help explain some of these truths.  Provincial government continues to use propaganda to set their agendas and gain the approval of the Ontario people.

As a ratepayer, I would be concerned as to where my hydro bill is headed and whether I will have electricity on an ongoing basis. Most middle class people are having a hard time as it is paying their way in this society. The Ontario government talks about thirty per cent "conservation" as being part of their long term plan. What exactly does conservation mean in this case? Does conservation mean that we will resort to rolling brownouts that happen in places like California? The Ontario Energy Long Term Plan proposes that Ontarians submit to energy poverty. Energy poverty is when access to hydro, heat and other forms of power is not attainable because people cannot afford to pay for it.

We have endured tax increases that the liberals promised would not happen. First the health care tax, then HST, not to mention the eHealth scandal where this government squandered over $1 billion of taxpayers money. Next came the OLG scandal where billions more was wasted. It gets better yet, the Ontario government has been involved in sole source contracts. Imagine that? A government that mandates all government agencies and corporations ensure a competitive bid process is adhered to, didn't even follow their own rules. The liberals very own former Energy and Infastructure Minister, George Smitherman sole sourced a multi billion dollar contract to Samsung for wind turbines. Prior to being Energy Minister, he was Health Minister and then he went on to municipal government to run for the mayoral race in Toronto. He lost to Rob Ford.

The liberals are shutting down coal-fired electricity plants in Ontario by the end of 2014, will be buying coal-fired power from the United States and ratepayers will be paying four times more for power. Those plants are in Michigan and are ready to provide Ontario the power that it will need when their Green Energy initiatives fail. Communities in Ontario where these plants have operated in a safe, reliable and environmentally responsible way for many years are going to lose some great community citizens, volunteers, donors, and taxpayers when these plants shut down in 2014.

As of 2014, Ontario will be entering their off coal initiative. Steel companies and oil refineries, who both burn coal to process their products, will be exempt from this initiative. In addition to this, it's okay to buy coal fired power from our neighbours. Shutting down these plants in Ontario will at the very most save 2 percent of the C02 problem for the province and only slightly more for the country.  You can read a letter to the editor at The Hamilton Spectator here.

None of this makes any sense to me. I guess that's why they call this politics. How do these politicians sleep at night? How do Ontarians and supporters of this game sleep at night? I know why I can't sleep at night and it's not because I am knowingly duping and stealing from honest working men and women in this province. It's because I am so worried about my future, your future, Ontario's future. This is not Ontario's problem alone, it is a global problem and we are not going to solve it alone.

Where is the green in this plan? I can make a guess where; right in the pockets of policy makers and big green energy organizations.

We are barely recovering from the recent recession and now we are going to spend billions to make a system that cannot sustain itself and needs another system to provide back up. Residents and municipal government in rural areas have no say in what happens in their communities.

There will come a day when the people of Ontario will rise up and say enough is enough. I find it sad that this plan will pull a lot of people under first. The writing is on the wall and only the affluent will stay afloat in the coming economic times.

I encourage you to view the following videos and learn more details about Ontario's Green Energy Initiative.

Attendance in Flu Shot Clinics Down This Year

2010-12-11T18:52:00.000-08:00

In a blog from October 30, 2009, I discussed the hype of the H1N1 flu vaccine. Last year people were racing to flu clinics to receive their flu shot for fear of catching the infamous H1N1 flu virus. There was so much hype in the media that people were literally jockeying for position as they stood in line for three and four hours with their children to wait for their turn to receive the needle. Not only was that an issue, but on top of that, they rationed the shots to elderly people and children claiming that there was a shortage. No wonder people were worried and competing to be first in line.

This is another example of how powerful our government, medical experts and media are in creating hype among the public. In the end, the H1N1 virus was not an issue through the winter season and the pandemic prediction did not come true.

This year, we see a decline in the number of people coming to flu clinics to receive their flu shots. Why? Perhaps it's because government, media and WHO didn't create panic among the masses like they did last year. I'm sure we'll have a repeat performance when the next potential pandemic is reported.

I didn't get a flu shot last year and I won't be getting one this year. I have to admit that I am skeptical about media hype and pharmaceutical companies and much of government action. The more I watch and read the news, the more skeptical I become on many issues. The fact is that media has a big part in shaping our beliefs, what we buy, how we vote, the list goes on, all the while, exasperating fear.

Cartoon from an editorial in the Cleavland Sun.

An Apology

2010-12-07T18:59:00.000-08:00

I haven't posted since July and cannot believe how fast these past few months have gone by. There has been a bit of a separation with my Internet access and I have recently gotten that problem solved. I apologize for taking so much time in between blogs. I am excited to get back to blogging.
The fall is here now. Winter is on our heels. Where exactly did the summer go? I certainly hope the winter season goes by just as fast. Christmas will be here before we know it and a new year begins.

Now to get researching and find some interesting things to blog upon.
Any writer would love the following quote and it may even make you chuckle...

"No passion on Earth, neither love nor hate, is equal to the passion to alter someone else's draft" - H.G. Wells

More to come soon. Thank you for reading.

A local artist going places was encouraged by her art teacher

2010-07-11T19:11:00.000-07:00

Michelle Snively-Jefferies grew up in Boston, Ont. and from a very young age knew she was nurturing a talent deep within. Snively-Jefferies stated: “My God given talent is, I believe, inherited from my family; my dad, who seems to explain most every story with a quick sketch, and an uncle, who works with many different mediums from wood to iron to paint.”

Snively-Jefferies talked about her Grade 6 art teacher Marion Anderson at Boston Public School. Anderson taught art class and was the principal of the school. This encouraging teacher told her class one day: “You can draw. You can paint. You are stating your very own perception of the subject. It is right for you." These words would stick with Snively-Jefferies and would give her confidence to continue to enhance her artistic talent. With much enthusiasm, the artist now enjoys spending time painting with her mentor, Anderson, who is now 91 years old.

With acrylics being her preferred medium, Snively-Jefferies got started painting about seven years ago when her husband bought her a tabletop easel, a canvas with acrylic paints and said, “Go for it.” Snively-Jefferies got going right away. Not wanting to experiment on that canvas, she started painting on pieces of old barn board. People who saw her work told her she should start selling her pieces. Things have taken off for her ever since.

Snively-Jefferies has a very supportive family and is very thankful for her husband and two children, who are also artistically talented. With a passion for painting, she will set up her easel anywhere, indoors or out and explained that, "Even during a recent house renovation she was able to create art.” There are plans in the works for a studio/gallery on the family's property and Snively-Jefferies is very excited to see that project turn into reality.

Influenced by the works of Georgia O’Keefe and Andrew Wyeth, Snively-Jefferies says she can,"see beauty in ordinary things." Snively-Jefferies went on to say that she, "wants people to see what she sees.” A day doesn’t go by without her studying and learning something new about art. Snively-Jefferies teaches private lessons and she says, “ I also learn from preparing for my students’ individual needs."

Over the years, Snively-Jefferies is grateful for having the opportunity to be involved in many shows and exhibitions, one being the Norfolk Studio Tour that runs annually in the fall. She also belongs to an organization called Norfolk ArtsCo, and explains that, "She receives a bi-monthly newsletter that keeps her in tune to all types of arts going on in the area."

Snively-Jefferies paints in the moment striving to stimulate the onlooker's senses and emotions. Her paintings now hang in the homes of private collectors across Canada and abroad: in Britain, Europe and as far away as Saudi Arabia. Like her paintings, she too has been on a journey of self-discovery and is “ Looking forward to where this journey will take her.”

When asked for words of wisdom for anyone who is interested in painting Snively-Jefferies says, “Give yourself permission to fail and also to succeed and go for it."

Snively-Jefferies art can be viewed on her website http://www.jefferies.myexpose.com/.

Picture featured in this blog is a piece Snively-Jefferies calls "Pink Lily."

Special Friend

2010-06-14T11:22:00.000-07:00

This past Friday, I received a call from my brother who delivered some very sad news. I learned that a dear friend of ours had passed suddenly at the age of 50. In fact, he had just celebrated  his birthday 32 days before his passing.

My memories of Ron Bunt span over the last 25 plus years. He was a friend of my brother's and I got to know Ron through him hanging out with my brother. Ron was a funny, kind, and gentle man. Ron worked on our farm over the years and he was always a happy spirit who would do just about anything to make others smile. He was a breath of fresh air to be around on those long work days. His playfulness and antics were nothing short of plain fun.  Working on the farm was short-term and was only a stepping stone toward Ron's real talent.

Ron was a superb carpenter, and for years, he worked many days and nights on the movie sets in Toronto. I heard many stories of his adventures in the making of Hollywood films. One movie that sticks out in my mind is The Bride of Chucky. The cast and crew seemed to have a lot of fun making that movie. Ron had pictures of himself and the dolls that he showed me along with sharing many funny stories that transpired through the months of making the movie. Ron had seen and met many Hollywood artists over the years.

In 2005, I was lucky enough to be invited by Ron to a Wrap Party for Fever Pitch, a film that starred Drew Barrymore and Jimmy Fallon. A Wrap Party is normally held for the cast and crew to celebrate after the completion of the principle filming. I ventured up to the GTA and met Ron at his house. We visited for awhile and ordered a cab to go downtown. First, we went for an awesome dinner at a place that had three restaurants on three separate floors. After dinner, we went to the Wrap Party in another part of the city.

At the Wrap Party, Ron and I were standing over by a set of pool tables when a guy comes over and starts setting up for a game. The guy then asked me "if I wanted to play a game of pool?" I remember saying something along the line of "Are you sure because I'd kick your butt." We stood there for a few minutes bantering back and forth. Ron stood off to the side and looked on with amusement.

During our bantering, I tell the guy, "I know karate", and he replies,"I'll just steal your energy and throw you over my shoulder." I laughed and turned to Ron who says to me, "do you know who that is?" I say to him, "I have no idea." Ron then informs me that it is in fact Jimmy Fallon. I was in shock - I did not clue into the fact that he was the star of the movie. After that, I turned all shy and Ron and I went over to the other side of the room. For the rest of the night, I avoided making eye contact with Jimmy. Ron and my night together was fun and full of entertainment. The food and drink was amazing just as a true Hollywood event would be. Ron and I stayed up really late that night telling stories and laughing. I can hear his contagious laugh in my mind.

I have often thought about that night and other fun times I had with Ron. Today, I just can't believe that a guy so full of life and so much left is now gone. His family is so sad - it is heart breaking. Thank you to Ron's brother who told me that Ron was so fond of me. I was truly blessed with a friend who cared.

Click here and view some of the movies that Ron is credited for as being Head Carpenter.  Good on you Ron!

Just in the past two weeks, I've thought of Ron so many times and was going to call to say hello. Today, I am wondering why I waited so long. Just like that - my chance to talk to him is gone.

Rest in peace my dear friend. You were loved by many and are sorrowfully missed.

Sedona Sweat Lodge Tragedy Update

2010-04-10T07:36:00.000-07:00

In a previous blog in October 2009, I wrote about a tragedy that happened in Sedona, AZ that ultimately took the lives of three people and hospitalized eighteen others. These people along with many others, were attending a spiritual retreat in Arizona hosted by guru James Arthur Ray. One of the activities of this "Spirtitual Warrior" retreat involved a very intense sweat lodge. Events surrounding this sweat lodge have been under investigation for almost four months now.

On February 3, 2010, authorities arrested James Arthur Ray on three counts of manslaughter. It will be interesting to see if these charges actually hold up in a court of law. I believe he definitely needs to be held accountable for his actions that caused three people to die in his intense sweat lodge. I still can't believe that people paid close to $10,000 each to attend this weeklong retreat. He promosed a profound experience and he delivered in a way that may not have been in line with the intentions of the participants. Through my research on this self help guru, I am convinced that he is a person who is charasmatic and has the potential to attain a strong hold on his followers.

Now that James Arthur Ray has been arrested, the families of the people who lost their lives may now feel that they have some kind of closure. This story really touched me when I orignially read about it, and I am comforted that authorities have pursued this investigation.

Mom Graduates to the Next Level of her Healing Journey

2010-03-17T07:41:00.000-07:00

On February 22, 2010, I received a call from the social worker who works in the Burn Unit at Hamilton General Hospital where my mother had been admitted since January 3rd. The social worker explained to me that mom was now officially past the very acute stages of her injuries and was being transferred to another health care facility closer to home. Mom had been placed on a waiting list for this program and a bed had become available in the Reactivation program on the Complex Continuing Care Unit at Brantford General Hospital in Brantford, Ontario. On this unit, mom will continue her healing, build her strength back up, and re-gain her mobility.

Because her right arm was so burned and received two different grafting surgeries, a condition called Hypertrophic Ossification developed in her elbow. This is described as an over abundance of calcium, in turn, causing rapid bone growth, which leads to limited mobility and much debilitating pain. Just another issue that has presented itself, likely because of the trauma she has been through.

She has become quite good at using her left hand considering she has been right handed all her life up until this unfortunate development. Mom is frustrated by her inability to use her right arm, although she has worked really hard to re-gain some movement here. Things that a normal person would take for granted are huge obstacles for a person who has gone through trauma and has lost mobility. For example, touch your index finger to your thumb. This movement may seem easy for you, but to my mother, to be able to achieve this goal has taken a lot of hard work. One of the most difficult tasks is to try and bend her arm at the elbow. That may never happen due to the hypertrophic ossification, but we are not giving up hope because we know what mom is already capable of.

Each day we see improvement in mom's burns and grafting sites. Her strength is slowly coming back and she has recently been able to walk a short distance with the assistance of a walker. She is working toward total independence. Her Physio Therapist and Occupational Therapist are working diligently with her to help her achieve this goal. This progress is exhilarating and gives us all much joy. To see her coming out of her cocoon and continue to develop her beautiful wings is elating. The healing that she has done so far is incredible.

It will be several more weeks before we will see mom come home again. She will go back to Hamilton at the end of the month to follow up with her plastic surgeon. The surgeon will take a look at her burns and grafting sites and determine whether they are healing as expected. Mom will likely be referred for fitting of pressure garments depending on how far her healing has come. These specially fitted garments will be worn for 23 hours a day and will help minimize scarring.

The journey continues and is still much like a roller coaster for all of us. When one is down, the other will help bring them up. Mom is definitely in need of constant accolades and encouragement. Understandably, she does get frustrated from time to time. The good thing is she knows what her goal is and will continue to strive to reach it. Mom and the rest of us are very thankful for the support of her health care team, family, friends, and many others that continue cheering for us all.

New Year Brings Sorrow with New Beginnings

2010-02-15T19:18:00.000-08:00

I have been away from blogging for a couple of months now. There is a reason why this has happened. My new year did not exactly start happy. There are things to be happy about though. You will see when you read this post. My apologies in advance for the length of this one.

On January 3, 2010, I was busy at home doing various chores and anticipating my return to work the next day. Since I live in the lower part of my parent's house, I make frequent trips upstairs to see how they are making out. This particular day, I was up and down a few times looking for my mother. My father told me that he thought she was in her room reading. I hadn't seen her yet, and I was waiting for her to appear. In the meantime, I went back down to my place and continued to do paperwork. Little did I know in a matter of moments, my life would change in a drastic way.

All of a sudden, I heard yelling and stomping on the floor. I immediately knew there was something horribly wrong. I took a big breath and ran upstairs. What I encountered, ripped my very core from my body. My mother was totally engulfed in flames and my father was desperately trying to rip the burning clothing off of her. My first instinct was to run and wet some towels and put them over her to extinguish the fire. All of this happened so quickly, and my mother remained very quiet. No doubt she was going into shock from what had been a major trauma to her body.

I called 911 and tried to explain the situation to the operator - this was hard as I was hysterical through this ordeal. In no time, the air ambulance was circling the area looking for a place to land. The fire department, ambulance, and police arrived in a matter of minutes. The attendants loaded my mother into the ambulance and took her to meet the helicopter. From about 3 kilometres up the road, they airlifted her to the Burn Trauma Unit in Hamilton, ON. The helicopter could not land near our house because of windy conditions.

My mother had been cooking poached eggs on a gas stove and caught her clothing on fire and couldn't put it out. I am so thankful to have been home on this day as my father and I were able to react to the situation in the best way we could at the time. My father sustained some superficial burns on his hands from the flames, but my mother received 2nd and 3rd degree burns to 40% of her body.

We were able to see our mother for a few minutes on the evening of her accident and were told that her condition was grim. The next morning, they put mom into a drug induced coma with a drug called Versed to keep her calm and sleepy. To control her pain, she was given Fentanyl. In order to help her breathe, she was intubated. The first few days after the accident seemed like months had gone by. For 72 hours, we did not know the full extent of our mother's burns. Existing burns continued to deepen and new ones appeared during the first three days. The family was so grief stricken and worried, we couldn't focus on anything but the well-being of mom. I know for myself, flashbacks of the accident have haunted me, tears have been plenty, and nightmares of the incident have interrupted my sleep cycle.  My doctor spoke to me about a condition she feels I am suffering from called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Over time, I will experience less and less anxiety surrounding memories of the event.

Doctors and nurses were constantly monitoring her and adjusting things to keep her alive. No one could ever imagine what this has been like. Little things like hearing that her urine output was adequate were like amazing steps to healing. With her being so burned, keeping fluid in her body was a challenge and her wounds were like sieves. Her bed and floor surrounding her bed were puddled from saline fluid coming out of her wounds. Her vital signs were constantly monitored through an arterial line that was inserted into an artery below her clavicle. Through this arterial line, they could monitor her vitals, as well as take blood work which happened constantly. They placed an NG tube through her nose into her stomach to give her constant feeds to keep her protein levels up. Proper fluid and protein levels are both important factors for healing, especially with burn patients.

We learned that the medical team would have to perform skin grafting surgery on mom and would have to take healthy skin off of her and place it on the burn sites. The process would involve a total debridement of the dead skin and then the new skin would be placed on the burn sites and held there with hundreds of staples. We were told that mom had a 40% chance of making it through this surgery. We were horrified and sat waiting to hear news. After waiting for over eight hours, we saw the doctor come into the waiting room. Mom made it through the surgery, but within a few days, she suffered a heart attack. The medical team was quick to respond with medications to help her condition. We knew that she would need more surgery because they were only able to do so many areas during the first surgery. The major concern was always her burns. I was told by the medical team that burn patients are the sickest patients because every system of the body is affected.

Mom needed more surgery and the team held off for a few weeks due to the fact that her condition was further weakened from the heart attack she suffered. When the team felt she was stronger, they decided to do the second surgery. My sister's and I were at the hospital bright and early that morning to see mom before she went to the Operating Room. I texted my brother, as he had to be at work that mornng. The hours ticked by very slowly and finally we got some news from a nurse that the surgery was going well. It wouldn't be long and she would be back in her room. She made it through another one and we were so relieved. Within a few hours after the surgery, her left lung collapsed. We were back in panic mode and mom had to have a chest tube inserted to inflate her lung. Within the next week or so, mom was improving and was able to come off the respirator and breathe on her own. For the next few days, her vitals were off and her blood pressure was extremely high. She was working harder on her own without help to breathe and her body was reacting to this. The team finally got things in check again. One of the doctors that were taking care of mom came into the room and said "ah we fixed her".   He then said, "was it the drugs or was it all the love that brought that blood pressure down"?  This was such a compliment to our family to have the medical team notice the warmth and love that surrounded our mother.

Once she was more stable, they moved her out of intensive care to the step down care. This was an exciting time for all of us. She was coming off of the heavy drugs and was now talking to us. Conversations were convoluted as the narcotics play a big part in confusion in patients. Within a couple of days, we learned mom had developed an infection in her blood commonly known as sepsis. Doctors quickly put her on a couple of antibiotics to combat the infection. They did blood cultures to see what the best course of treatment would be and they found that Vancomycin was their drug of choice. She has received this drug for two weeks now. Her temperature has gone to normal as well as her white blood cell count. The team suspects that the PICC line they inserted into her was the cause of her infection.

The team in the Burn Trauma Unit has been amazing with the care they have given our mother. It has been over six weeks since my mother's accident and she has been through two major surgeries for skin grafting, was asleep for over a month, and has fought an infection in her blood. She is improving day by day and is now regaining memories and making conversation. Her road to recovery is long but she is healing and that is a gift. She will have to go through physiotherapy to regain mobility and control scarring for the better part of two years.

I am thankful to the Burn Trauma Unit team, my family, and friends for their support, love, strength, and commitment. The many prayers and healing thoughts that have been sent to my mother and our family have definitely played a big part in how this story has been shaping up. Mother has proved her strength and will to live.  She has amazed her medical team and many others. We love her so much and are so proud to call her mom.

In a card to our mother, my sister and I wrote a poem that says the following:

The healing thoughts and healing hands that you have felt;
Are lifting you out of the sickness that has dwelt;
Accept this love, that encircles you;
It's your guardian angels that will get you through.

I can honestly say I have learned a few things from all of this. Never give up on the possibilities and certainly never underestimate the power of LOVE.

Holiday Time - Yours to Enjoy

2009-12-28T22:24:00.000-08:00

Christmas is over and New Years is on it's way. The holidays continue on for another week for many of us. The last few days have given me a chance to catch up on some cleaning and take in numerous movies. Yesterday, I made a dinner for a dear friend of mine. We enjoyed good food, great conversation, and a few glasses of wine. What a nice way to spend an evening.

Needless to say, today was a very low key day. I spend most of it curled up on the couch watching movies. There have been some very enjoyable movies including: I love You Man, The Ugly Truth, The Proposal, and Julie and Julia. I have to admit this was a very good way to spend a day. I even had a surprise visit from another firend of mine.

Tomorrow is another free day for me. Maybe I'll read a book that has been sitting wating for me to pick it up. The beauty of holidays is that you can do what you like, when you like. If you decide to do something different, that is okay too.

If you are off this week, enjoy every moment and make sure you do things you want to do.

The Eve Before Christmas

2009-12-24T15:18:00.000-08:00

Today is the official start of the holiday season. Those of us who celebrate Christmas are likely spending time with family and friends. The children are excited, they've written their letters for Santa Claus asking for their most desired presents, and can't wait for his arrival. Tonight will be a night that parents will likely struggle to get those little ones to sleep. The last resort will be telling them that if they don't go to sleep, "Santa will not come". That one will be guaranteed to work.

Christmastime is also the end of one year and the beginning of another. There is much reflection of 2009 - with a hope for a better 2010. For myself, I am glad to see 2009 end. This past year has been a difficult year. My father has not been well and that has been a big worry. 2009 also took with it many lives, some close, some acquantances, and some celebrities.

The next week or so, I will be enjoying some time off work. I look forward to a much needed rest and spending time with my family and friends. I wish everyone a joyous holiday season and a prosperous New Year. In a famous poem called "Twas the Night Before Christmas" Santa would say, "Happy Christmas to all, and to all a good-night!"

Province Appears Desperate

2009-12-18T20:02:00.000-08:00

In an article in the Globe and Mail, it appears that the Ontario government is tossing around the idea of selling off many Crown corporations in an effort to bring down the $24.7 - billion deficit. Perhaps, this is just a balloon being floated out to see how much public outcry they receive.

Some of the corporations named are Ontario Power Generation, Hydro One, LCBO, and the OLG. These Crown corporations have been a money maker for the Ontario government for many years. In some cases, they have also been a money pit for the tax payers of Ontario. Many money spending issues have come out into the open over the past several years, putting many of these organizations in a bad light to many.

The latest one being the OLG and before that the E-Health scandal, commonly known as "Muffingate". I think instead of selling off these corporations, the government should keep a tighter reign on spending habits and actual benchmarks.

This appears to be a sign of desperation coming from the Ontario government because they realize what a mess they have made in the province. I'm afraid that selling precious Crown corporations will only put Ontario in a worse position.

Who Knew Sheep Herding Could Be Extreme

2009-12-14T08:31:00.001-08:00

Although, I realize that sheep herding is a talent and an art, I would never have believed what I saw this week. A group of Welsh sheep herders have made an astonishing video at night of sheep dressed up in LED coats. From an ariel view it resembles a game of computer ping pong with so much more.

This video was extra amazing to me because my mother's family is from Wales and I have been fortunate enough to take more than a few trips there. I love the countryside and the people. My grandmother is gone now and it's hard to say when and if I will be back to Wales again. I'd like to think I would make another trip over someday. On most all of my trips to Wales, I had the pleasure of driving up into the mountains to witness a fantastic view. Things are so green there and the sheep and horses roam freely.

One time, I visited the mountains with my neice. When we got in the car and started to drive away, I noticed I had lost my camera case to which my neice replied, "it's with the sheep now". That was such a funny moment.

I hold many fond memories of Wales and now I have seen sheep herding at it's finest.

House Hunting Continues

2009-12-13T08:30:00.000-08:00

Earlier in my blog, I talked about making the decision to look for the right house to buy. Well, I have been looking at several different homes that have impressed me - but in no way have wowed me. This past Thursday, I went and saw a house that really tweaked an interest. Not wanting to make any rash decisions, I called in some family members including my mom, sister, and brother in law to see the house and offer opinion. I arranged for my second viewing that took place today.

Not surprising to me, everyone was very impressed with what they saw and felt the house was right. I'm very happy that I have finally spotted something that I really like. Now it is a matter of working out a fair price for both me and the people selling the home. The important thing to remember here is not to get too attached.

A Big Tiger at Night - Baby Tiger in the Morning

2009-12-12T08:27:00.000-08:00

Unless you live under a rock, you have heard the stories circulating about Tiger Woods’ many trysts. Does this really affect any one of us? I would say no – unless you happen to be his wife or one of the many mistresses being named in the last few weeks. These women in my opinion are cheapening themselves by going to the media with tell all stories. It is obvious they are seeking fame and money. What a way to become rich and famous – by giving up your dignity. I don’t understand why Woods’ representatives are even working out negotiations of paying some of these women off. I think the cat (no pun intended) is out of the bag. The gig is up – Elin is well aware that her husband has been unfaithful to her over and over again.

Sources say that this is a tactic to save his marriage, but I wouldn’t be surprised if that dream has already slipped away. I believe it is only a matter of time before Elin takes her money and moves on from Tiger. As far as his sponsors that have dropped him – after the storm is weathered, they will be back. You can count on that. Tiger is classed as the world’s best golfer and I don’t see that changing anytime soon.

Following Up on State Dinner Crashers

2009-12-06T17:23:00.000-08:00

Thank you to everyone who participated in a recent poll on my blog. The question was, should the couple that crashed Obama's state dinner be punished?

Results were:

25% of people said - No - the secret service should hire them as experts.
25% of people said - Yes - throw the book at them.
50% of people said - No - leave them alone.
0% of people were - Undecided.

Michaele and Tareq Salahi were the couple that showed up at Obama's state dinner without an invitation. This situation has put the secret service under scrutiny.

The Loss of Someone

2009-12-03T17:07:00.000-08:00

Earlier this year, I wrote about walking in the CIBC "Run for the Cure". I have been part of a team called Ann's Army for two years now. Earlier today, I learned that our fearless leader has lost her battle with cancer. Sadly, Ann passed away last night after just a few months of learning this horrible disease was invading her body yet again.

I worked with Ann. She was a wonderful lady who always had a smile to share, a sparkle in her eyes, and a kind word to say. Even though she had endured much pain and suffering, Ann kept a positive outlook.

My day was somber as I drifted back and forth in thought of Ann and her family. She will be sorely missed.

Obama's First State Dinner Proves Easy Access

2009-11-26T17:00:00.000-08:00

Earlier this week, President Obama hosted his first state dinner at the White House, in honour of Indian Prime Minister Manmohan Singh. The prestigious event that honed heavy security drew a large crowd of over 300 prominent guests. Michaele and Tareq Salahi, a Virginian couple were not on the guest list, but managed to slip through the tight security. Although harmless guests, this breech of security measure has caused quite a stir. How did they manage to fool the so called security team on duty that night?

It seems, the couple waltzed into the event exuding confidence, fratenizing, and taking advantage of photo ops with the likes of Vice President Joe Biden (featured in the picture with the Salahi's), White House Chief of Staff Rahm Emanuel, Washington Mayor Adrian Fenty, and CBS News anchor Katie Couric. The funny part is that the Secret Service learned about this the next day after being alerted that the couple had posted pictures and boasts of attending the state dinner on Facebook. The rumour is that the couple is set to have roles in an upcoming reality television show called "The Real House Wives of Washington".

I suspect someone's job will be on the chopping block over this one. This definitely puts egg on the face of the White House security team. As for the couple, they got their fifteen minutes of fame, but may possibly face some kind of legal repercussions.

The House Hunter

2009-11-24T17:23:00.000-08:00

I have reached a time in my life when an apartment does not cut it for me anymore. Giving this idea much thought, I have decided to look for my own home. I casually started looking at homes last summer and have been addicted to MLS ever since. I find it facinating how differently houses are priced and feel there are a few that are totally out of line with the ask. It seems that if you are looking on the lower end, you will get a pretty small, and likely outdated home with a nicer sized yard, or a nicer home with virtually no yard.

Last night, I found just the latter. Having spotted a very nice looking bungalow with an attractive price, I arranged a viewing. Just as I thought, the house is set up great and looks very cozy. I absolutely love the livingroom and the lovely gas fireplace it offers. The upstairs would be totally fine to live in with not much more than a coat of paint needed. The downstairs has potential but would need some work and money. I could live with that knowing I would be spending some significant years there. All in all, I think the house is good value; however, the near non-existent back yard is a concern. Most of the back yard was pavement (driveway is shaped like an L), with an apartment building sitting directly behind. I have a dog so a backyard is definitely on my list of options. Even nicer if the yard is already fenced in.

On Saturday, I have about seven more houses lined up to see. I have already checked them out on-line and have a good idea which ones are going to appeal to me. This home buying thing is a big investment and I am not taking this lightly. I want to make sure I get the best suited home, at the right price. Each house I see has something good to offer and is helping me on my quest. I am just waiting for the right one to come along.

The Givng Season

2009-11-20T06:16:00.000-08:00

Still thinking about going green for the holidays? Good. This means you are definitely a conscientiousness person and want to help your environment. The Christmas season is upon us, a time where hearts soften, family and friends unite, and share a time of thankfulness. For many of us, it is holiday season - a break from work, school, and also a time for reflection, as we get ready to bring in a brand new year. When you think about it, so many of us are very fortunate. But think about the not so fortunate, as well.

This year may be a different year for many others who like us - had a fotunate life, and through a sudden downfall in the economy, have found themselves unemployed and fighting to stay on top of bill payments. I'm amazed at how much this economy has affected others. The massive job losses have taken their toll in so many ways. The local foodbanks can't keep up and toy drives are plenty. People need help every day of our lives and I hope that if you can help, you will consider doing so.

Many studies have concluded that helping another makes the helper feel good. Having been involved in a not for profit scene, I can tell you that giving time, money, resources, and support to worthy causes has been a very rewarding experience for me. The ones who help bring others up, are essentially creating a better environment for themselves. When you think about a hospital and supporting the purchase of innovative equipment, you are making that hospital a better facility. You never know when you or someone you know may need that hospital, and the quality, or quantity of care that hospital can provide. This is just an example, but you get the picture. There are things in life that are important. Those important things need our support and we need them. It's a win-win situation.

I saw a movie in the past year called "Pay it Forward", 2000. This story was both touching and compelling for me. The whole idea of doing something good for 3 people and them doing something good for 3 people, and so on, is so sensible and selfless. We are in this life together - why not make the most out of it and let others do the same?

Having said all of this, I think that giving is a personal choice and it probably isn't for everyone. I just hope that there are always enough fortunate that are willing to give to the unfortunate. After all, we all depend on one another for one reason or another.

Social Media - The New Way to Communicate

2009-11-16T09:31:00.000-08:00

The advent of Web 2.0 has started a new phenomenon called social media. The possibilities are endless and the participants keep growing each day. There are so many positive aspects about social media to consider. Some examples of social media are using Twitter, Facebook, or simply text messaging on a cell phone to communicate - although some would disagree that texting on a cell is social media. I see it as fitting under the umbrella because of the ability to get a message to someone non-audibly and without seeing them. Over the past number of years, this form of communicating has become popular, especially with the younger generation. Sending a status update, tweet, or text message is much easier than dialling a phone number, or going to meet someone face to face. Using social media techiniques take precedence. It is quick, very private, and you don’t have to speak a word, in a literal sense.

Face to face communication seems to have taken a back seat. Has it really? Are people losing the skill of face to face communiation? Are we becoming desentized to human contact and actual conversation? So many questions with many different answers.

I saw a news story on television the other night about a teenage girl who was addicted to text messaging. On average, she sent over 3,000 messages each month. Her parents had no idea just how much she was texting until they looked at the phone bill. Luckily, they had a plan for this otherwise I think there would have been some pretty hefty bills racking up. This particular teen seemed to have withdrawn from day-to-day conversation and seemed distant to her family. It was obvious she was wrapped up in her text messaging addiction.

The teen decided to give up text messaging for a week and much to her avail, she discovered that is was getting easier for her to have conversations with others, including her family, she was sleeping better, and her marks went up. I'm sure there are more than a few examples like this to choose from. This one caught my attention and got me thinking. I am also a texter, Facebooker, Twitterer, etc. - you get the message right? I still use the telephone and meet face to face with family, friends, and co-workers. I like to think I do have a balance in my social media and pre-social media life.

Face to face conversation is not easy for all and definitely seems like a bit of an art. The young need to know it even though they are developing and maintaining relationships through social media tools. Living in a constant virtual world probably isn't the most healthy thing to do. Balance is definitely key.

I believe that social media has it's advantages and has helped connect people after many years of not being in touch. Through social networking sites such as Facebook, old lost friends are finding eachother again, no matter where they are in the world. Twitter is also a great way to connect to the on-line world.

On the flip, read Why Face-to-Face Communication is Best and decide for yourself. I think think both are beneficial. Just like everything, there is an upside and a downside. Society is on its way to a new way of relationship building both personally, in business, and social media will only get more popular from here.

Going Green for the Holidays

2009-11-10T17:52:00.000-08:00

We are all exposed to the three R's everyday and everywhere we turn. The three R's consist of Reduce, Reuse, and Recycle. There are many ways we can reduce our carbon footprint and cut down on waste. For example, we have all been using a blue box for many years. Much effort has been put into reducing the impact of landfill areas by implementing recycling programs and educating the public on the positive effects of being environmentally responsible.

The holidays are just around the corner with only about six weeks until Christmas. Where does the time go? Is it just me, or does Christmas always seem to sneak up on us every year? This time of the year is normally a retailer's dream. This year may be different because of the economy. People are not spending money like they have in the past. There may be more reasons for the difference. For example, the reduction of one's carbon footprint continues to be a priority in the media and every day life, and this holiday season is no exception.

I stumbled across an article that talks about reducing our carbon footprint over the holidays. This is a change from the prominent disposable society we are living in. It is kind of appalling to learn that approximately 66% of items that we throw away each day could actually be reused. Why are we still being so wasteful? Part of this could be that we are a spoiled society and have an overabundance of everything. The local shoe repair person packed up and left town years ago. At least, this is the case in my area. I'm sure the larger cities still have the odd place to take shoes, purses, etc. to be repaired.

Reusing boxes and paper from previous years is only one way we can make a positive difference for the environment. Earth Savings News suggests reusing holiday decorations, party supplies, and switching up an outfit as opposed to going out and buying new.

There are many useful tips listed on the Earth Savings News website. Many holiday tips are listed here. Check them out; you can cut down on waste and save some money for the Boxing Day sales.

Who Let the Dogs Out

2009-11-08T17:07:00.000-08:00

Rosie and Lily

Nothing is more terrifying for me as the last couple of times my three dogs escaped from their fenced in yard. The fenced in yard provides more than enough running and play area, as well as keeping them contained. It was my fault for opening the gate and thinking they would follow me to the door of the house. It is obvious they have no idea about the dangers of the outside world. The first picture features Rosie on the left and Lily to the right. Rosie and Lily are both Bichon Poo, are two peas in a pod, and as you can see from the picture, are very happy girls. They are a joy to have around and have become great companions.

Daisy

For being so little, they are like bullets and take off like a flash. They have no idea that the road is a minefield to them. Rosie is the ringleader and is the one who runs in front and the other two follow. Daisy seems to be the only one that will retreat relatively quick and return to me. Lily will full out follow Rosie as fast as she can not knowing where she may end up. This most recent episode had Rosie and Lily both running across a large field by our house, crossing a road, and ending up at the neighbour's house. The second picture features Daisy, a Shihpoo, is the oldest of the crew, and sometimes seems like the wisest. I say this because she did eventually stop and come back to me - thankfully.

As I grabbed a hold of Daisy and picked her up in my arms to go after the other two, Lily stopped in the ditch in front of the neighbour's property and stayed there. I think she suddenly realized she had no idea where she was. It was when Rosie decided to come back out from inside the neighbour's property, that they both spotted me and decided to make a run toward me. I stopped in my tracks and my heart pounded as the two of them crossed the road to make their way over to me. I feared the worst, and all I could do was focus on them staying on the path and making it back to me unhurt.

Thank goodness they came toward me and I was able to grab Rosie by the collar and hook Lily up to the only leash I had with me. I carried Daisy under one arm and Rosie under the other all the way back home. Lily pranced beside me on the leash. Into the fenced in yard they went and they were once again safe. I was the blame for the escape because I opened the gate in thoughts that they would follow me to the door.

I am just thankful that nothing terrible happened to these girls. They have become part of the family and I don't know what I would do if anything happened to them now. This was a lesson learned for me (second time) and I will never trust them off lead again.

This Is It

2009-11-06T10:36:00.000-08:00

Being an avid Michael Jackson fan for most of my life, I had the pleasure of going to see the "This Is It" movie. I was unsure how this would be effective, but was pleasantly surprised by how well this production was put together. It shows Michael's soft side and his tremendous talent.

This footage is like watching the concert without the costumes. There is a new version of "Thriller", "Smooth Criminal", and "The Earth Song". You definitely get a glimpse of what would have been. What a shame all of his hard work was for nothing.

Michael had a say in every aspect of this concert. His ideas were evident, and he was percise in his music. He knew every beat and every moment.

The end of the movie hit me like a thunderbolt. It was a familiar pose that Michael inhabited, but you see the life leave his body as the picture is freeze framed. The thought came to my mind that undoubtedlly spoke "This Is It".

You can view a bitter/sweet movie review here.

Confused by H1N1

2009-10-31T20:25:00.000-07:00

Each year, the flu hits and takes a substantial amount of lives. This year, we have a new flu known as H1N1 that seems to be getting the spotlight. There are conflicting stories in the media about the vaccine, and whether or not it is really going to be effective. I saw a YouTube video involving several doctors who are dead against the H1N1 vaccine and vaccinations, in general. They feel that before anyone submits to getting vaccinated, they should research and educate themselves fully.

An article from the Globe and Mail November 5 is encouraging people to get the H1N1 shot. The shot is not readily available for all Canadians until Christmas time. The hype is strong surrounding this super flu and its supposed antidote. The more focus in the media of the spreading virus and the lack of vaccine availability, the more people are panicking. I know someone who stood in line for 3 hours this week to get their 2 children immunized. I also know 2 other people who received the H1N1 shot and they reported that they came down with mild symptoms of the flu the very next day.

We all know that the pharmaceutical companies are capitalizing each year through drug, and vaccine production. We are so trusting of the drugs they provide. Is the H1N1 virus really more harmful then other flu viruses, or is this an opportunity for our government to team up with the pharmaceutical companies and take the focus off another really big issue? After all, there has been a record amount of scandal in Parliament this year.

It's hard to know what to do with so much ambiguous information floating around. Because of this uncertainty, I will not be taking the H1N1 shot. I will practice good hand washing techniques, eat healthy, get plenty of rest, and hope for a healthy winter.

Find the cartoon image featured in this blog here.

Sweat Lodge Experience Goes Severely Wrong

2009-10-30T19:47:00.000-07:00

This article talks about the terrible "Spiritual Warrior" retreat tragedy.

I heard about this perilous journey that people paid up to $10,000 to experience. James Arthur Ray, a spiritual guru, was the leader of this retreat. Part of the journey was to fast for days before participating in the sweat lodge event.

Kirby Brown, 38, was one of the victims that passed away during the vigorous and extreme sweat lodge. How anyone would ignore pleas from people in the lodge when they started saying they could not handle the heat anymore, is beyond me. These people had fasted for days prior to this sweat lodge ceremony, and who knows if they had hydration during the 2-hour event. Ray did not force people to stay in the tent, but he strongly encouraged them to stay for the entire time. The situation is being investigated by authorities as a homicide. This could be the end of Ray, and his multi-million dollar spiritual empire.

I don't feel that there was any thought to the health and well-being for these followers of Ray. Because 3 people died and at least 18 were hospitalized for dehydration and organ failure, totally abolishes Ray's creditibility. He talks about obeying the laws of the universe because if you don't, you will never accomplish what you set out to do. Ray did not obey the laws of the universe in this sweat lodge incident, and there are many paying the price for his obvious carelessness. He ignored the warning signs around him. People were becoming distraught, unable to handle the intensity of the heat. Ray encouraged them to stay inside and this proved to be a tragic error.

Traditional sweat lodges are not intended to kill people, nor force them to endure more than they can physically handle. They are built very carefully and in a way that allows enough oxygen for the participants.

Time will unfold the destiny of James Arthur Ray. I have to question his intent in this sweat lodge, turned death lodge experience. Read more here and decide for yourself.

When Work Quits before You Do

2009-10-24T00:01:00.000-07:00

This story touches on our failing economy.

This article really hits home on the generation gap that looms for many baby boomers. Technology has exploded and has taken over the market place, replacing many previously prestigious and sought after career paths. There is no longer a big need for help when creating photography, newsprint, social networking, and public relations. Through technology, virtually anyone can utilize the previous simply by learning a new software. Anyone who didn't jump on the technology bandwagon is certainly feeling the crunch now.

There are many people who have work quit them before they are ready to quit work. It could be because of sickness, or accident, as well as a failing economy. Life depends on money and one better hope they have planned for the unexpected. Unfortunately, there are many who never thought of that. There are also many who did, worked for 28 years toward a 30 year pension, and suddenly found themselves out of employment. Imagine paying into a pension for 28 years and losing that? It's hard to not envision a feeling of devastation in this particular case.

It must be difficult for an older person with so many years experience to submit to a younger boss that in most cases, knows very little about the fundamentals of the business. They have one thing that the older person does not, and that is called youth.

The good news is that all is not lost. There is always an opportunity to start from where you are. It's time to get on the technology band wagon so not to get lost in the dust.

Giving Global Warming the Cold Shoulder

2009-10-20T00:01:00.001-07:00

The Globe and Mail had an interesting article recently about pessimistic views toward global warming.

Global warming has been a hot topic in the media for over a decade. Is this once thought of huge threat on our future, no longer a huge threat? Temperatures have levelled off over the past 10 years and people have become desensitized to the idea of global warming. The fight against global warming has raised taxes and and eyebrows amongst the masses. Are scientists, environmentalists, and governments capitalizing off the general population?

I believe in the old saying "Don't Fool with Mother Nature." For years, much of the earth's rainforest's was cut down and destroyed. I remember learning in school that rainforest's were responsible for about 60% to 70% of our oxygen (this number seems to be 40% now). Rainforest's once covered 14% of our earth, and now is reduced to only 6%. I am not a scientist, but common sense tells me that this is not a good thing for the earth. Why did our government allow this to happen, knowing the rainforest's are responsible for turning carbon dioxide into oxygen, as well as being a medicinal provider against deadly disease?

There is yet another statement I have heard many times that says,"we pay for the sins of our fathers." Global warming is the result of mere greed of the lumber industry. It's hard to turn back after the damage is done. The rainforest's are diminishing, and now future generations will pay personally, socially, and financially for this destruction. No one really knows what our future really holds.

A good start to helping the carbon dioxide problem would be to stop destroying the rainforest's and look for a way to replenish critical vegetation. This progress will only happen when the 'powers that be' actually admit their mistake.

Ontario Cuts Funds for Entrepreneurs

2009-10-19T00:01:00.000-07:00

The Liberals are not helping the economy get back on its feet. Read this article and see why.

During these omnipresent troubled economical times, the Ontario government has now put a hold on further funding for two potentially stimulating programs. The future does not look bright for anyone in Ontario who is planning on starting their own business. In the past year, thousands of people have been laid off from their jobs because of businesses closing down. We have a financial crisis in our province and many people are not even eligible for employment insurance. The government seems to be turning a blind eye to the problem, shutting many Ontarians out in the cold.

Most job loss has occurred in the manufacturing sector. Certain communities have been hit harder than others. The provincial government has decided to pull the plug and stop accepting any further applications from anyone wanting to pursue education and create a new business. What are the unemployed supposed to do? Because of the funding cuts, there won't even be any research carried out to explore job creation. The unemployment stats are misleading because anyone who doesn't qualify for employment insurance fall off the radar. While the numbers continue to show a decrease in unemployment rates, the reality of it hardly compares.

In light of recent reports of government funded organizations wasting billions of taxpayer dollars on programs that ultimately made zero headway in accomplishing what they started out to do, really is a slap in the face for the thousands of unemployed people of Ontario.
Perhaps we are in need of a change of government in this province, since it seems that their list of promises that remain unleashed keeps growing, and any hope of recovering from this economic downturn continues to diminish.
Anyone still working in Ontario should be very thankful for what they have. I feel badly for the one's who don't know how they are going to make ends meet, or how they are going to begin to start over.

Obama World Peace Prize?

2009-10-18T00:01:00.000-07:00

Barack Obama wins a Nobel Peace Prize. There seemed to be much question from the media and public to this prestigious award going to Barack Obama. I have to admit that when I first heard this announcement, I too questioned the decision. My first instinct was that maybe this was just a little bit of grandstanding on the political front. Actually, there was a lot of people around me that said they were wondering what constituted Obama to be this year's winner.

My understanding of the Nobel Peace Prize is that the criteria baseline is grounded in peace attribution. It seems to me that the United States is involved in two wars going on in the middle east. Mr. Obama is actually Chief and Commander of two major wars. What an oxymoron to claims of world peace efforts. Perhaps it will take a little time to end these wars, and the President appears to have strong beliefs in ending war and creating solidified altruistic relationships between the US and the rest of the world.

I think it's great that Obama is using diplomacy as a strategy to achieve strong relationships and understanding within the nations. In reality, we should be living in peace, adapting to the natural order of ebb and flow of life.

Whether or not Obama winning a Nobel Peace Prize was premature, will obviously remain an issue of debate. All we can hope for is that the world does achieve the prize's ultimate goal of obtaining world peace.

The House of Pain

2009-10-17T11:54:00.000-07:00

This is what I refer to my most recent undertaking of going to the gym. After many years of inactivity, I have signed up for personal training sessions and have done three so far. Might I mention that I purchased these sessions at a silent auction earlier this year. Not to add insult to injury, but there is nothing silent about the pain that I have endured in my short tenure of going to the gym.

My first session went pretty well. It was a light workout combined with a consultation with my trainer. We talked about diet, my goals, and what I expect to gain from these sessions. I was sore the next few days, but went on to my second session without reservation.

The second session included a full leg workout, which I felt instantaneously. I walked out of the gym feeling much like a gumby doll. The rest of the night was interesting. It was difficult to walk up and down stairs and my muscles seemed to have a mind of their own. The next two days can be described as "full and total pain." On a scale of one to ten, I give the experience an eight. I could not even get out of my car and wished I had a crane there to lift me to an upright position.

I was supposed to go in for another workout post second day and ended up calling and re-scheduling. My trainer told me to soak in a tub of Epsom salts and to come back the following day. He assured me that we would not be working on legs, but instead would focus on upper body. Today I feel stiff and sore, but nothing compares to that first leg workout.

Knowing that going to the gym will boost my energy level, improve wellness, and eventually make my clothes fit better will keep me motivated. As time marches on and the workouts add up, I know the soreness I feel now will lighten.

I will forge on and keep this routine going. I keep thinking of an old saying that I've heard many times before - "no pain, no gain."

Analysis: 'Blackface Jacksons' embarrassing to Australia

2009-10-09T18:28:00.000-07:00

This article talks about racisim in Austrailia.

I've never been to Australia, but have always been intrigued by movies, pictures, and stories I have seen. I picture the men as rugged, strong, and ready to take on a crocidile in the outback. After reading this article, I am a bit embarrassed by the ignorance that seems to be prevelant in this nation. A former Prime Minister stated that, "Australians pride themselves for their egaltarianism", but apparently, this is for white people only. This statement seems ambiguous to me and should be disgarded.

Good for Harry Conick Jr. for rejecting racial slurs. I'm sure that the Jackson family would not feel this skit was funny, especially because of the recent loss of a dear loved one. It is too bad that Michael Jackson could not receive the respect he deserves, if only for what he gave mankind through his music, dance, creativity, and altruism. I don't understand this 'old school' behaviour of this group in Australia. This is disrespectful on so many levels, and I'm glad this act has been exposed. Conick Jr. is a native American and displays how much progress many Americans have made in the segregation of different race.

It is important to treat others with respect and dignity. The colour of our skin does not decide our class or worth. We are the same inside and no one is better than any one else, even though there are many who would beg to differ. There is nothing funny when we joke at the expense of others.

This situation only stresses that Australia is still a very young nation that needs to grow up.

CIBC "Run for the Cure"

2009-10-05T16:31:00.000-07:00

On Sunday, October 4th, I had the pleasure of walking in my third ever "Run for the Cure" fundraiser for Breast Cancer Research. This was my second year in a row walking for a team called "Ann's Army", a team made up of OPG employees, and their family, and friends. Both years, we have won the corporate award, rasing the most of any organization involved. One year I walked for a team called "Freshly Squeezed", a team sponsored by Norfolk General Hospital's Ontario Breast Sceening Program. The "Run for the Cure", is held all across Canada and has helped raise millions of dollars for breast cancer research. This event, started out small and has grown by leaps and bounds as the years have rolled by. Each year, many more people are affected by this horrible disease and we are all there for one reason or another, but most of all for wanting to help find a cure. In our location alone (Simcoe, ON), there were over 1,400 participants. It was amazing to see a sea of pink walking through the streets of Simcoe.

I've met so many lovely people through participating in this event. Last year, I brought my Bichon Poo Rosie, who stole many hearts there. A wonderful lady who walked with me wanted to walk Rosie. I have to say she did a fine job making Rosie heel. We all enjoyed our 5 km walk. This year, I brought Rosie again, along another addition to the family, another Bichon Poo who is called Lily. A friend of mine was at a dog show a few weeks back and picked up a pink doggie stroller for me. Since I had the two dogs to deal with, I brought the stroller along to make things a bit easier. What a conversation piece this was indeed. The local paper asked me if they could take our picture, it was great. As it turned out, the same lady from last year wanted to walk Rosie again (I think she really likes Rosie), and to top it all off, a girl I work with wanted to walk Lily. It was nice to see Lily heeling with her as well. There wasn't a dog for me to walk, so there I was walking an empty stroller for 4 km. We put the girls in the stroller for the last kilometer because they were tired, and they were as good as gold. I am so thankful to a co-worker who snapped the featured picture. I would not have had an epic picture if it wasn't for him.

I hope to be involved again next year, and I look forward to again witnessing the heartfelt spirit that is definitely a big part of this event. I'm proud to be a part of such a passionate group of supporters and survivors.

Sick Kids 'superstar' fundraiser under a spotlight

2009-10-02T16:21:00.000-07:00

This blog is in reference to the following article:

Volunteers and Smoozeneers

After reading this article, I finish week 3 of my tenure as volunteer campaign coordinator for the organization I work for, heading up their internal charity campaign. I can't help but feel deflated in my efforts because it is stories like this that ruin it for the rest of us. The work I am doing is not compensated monetarily, but rather by fulfillment because of a deed from the goodness of my heart. All of the money raised through our campaign will go directly to charity. This does not seem the case for this donor generating giant.

Michael O'Mahoney recently resigned as head of Toronto's Sick Children Foundation. Since 2003, he has earned in most years $620K (U.S.) annually. This is more than your average specialist. Last year his annual income was slightly lower, only making $574K. The best part of this story is that O'Mahoney resigned and was given $2.4M as a severance. While O'Mahoney was in power at the foundation, expenses increased 31 per cent annually and donations increased 18 per cent. This does not sit well with your average volunteer or donor. O'Mahoney boasts raising $489M for the foundation while at the helm. The truth is that he did not do that alone. He oversaw a huge staff that executed large fundraising programs. It would be impossible for any one person to raise that kind of money alone.

A Lack of Transparency

The trust may well be broken for the people who support Sick Kids. This is mainly because these claims are coming out after a significant amount of money is spent on administrative costs. Charitable organizations strive for transparency. It is obvious this particular one has a deficit in that area.

It's not to say that a person working in the not for profit sector should not be paid for their hard work, but perhaps a more reasonable annual salary is in order. One can not go around asking people to donate their time and money and then pocket a substantial amount of the donations.

This is likely a wake up call for many organizations who are competing for charitable donations. It is typically thought that spending 20 percent of the donations is a reasonable amount, but depending on the circumstances, could be hard to achieve. An organization is lucky if they have a large 3rd party fundraising group that raises a ton of money for them and expecting very little in return. Sick Kids definitely would have opportunity to cultivate that with a donor database of 300,000.

Giving money to the right cause, used in the right way, is a very vital part of communities. Let us not get discouraged, let us learn from this.

Many Thoughts to Ponder

2009-09-27T18:37:00.000-07:00

After almost two years, I am back on the blogger. This next series of blogs will be dedicated for my Social Media class. I look forward to being a regular blogger again, as well as reading my other class mates blogs.

My blog won't have a specific theme but rather, I will focus on many different topics as I experience them, or see them in the media. After all, there are so many thoughts to ponder.

More coming soon...

We're Canadian and Everybody Loves Us

2007-11-25T17:34:00.000-08:00

Link for MacLeans annual poll on how others view Canada here.

Everybody loves us and we don't even know it...
I had no idea that Maclean’s did an annual poll surveying other cultures to find out how they rank Canada as a nation. I think that is a very good idea and it helps give one sense of identity and accomplishment on Canada’s footprint in the world. I’m impressed by the positive feedback Canada got as being one of the best countries to live in the world. On the other hand, it was a bit disturbing to learn how Canadians view the country themselves in some areas. The Americans seemed to be more knowledgeable about us than I thought to be as a rule. They were the only ones to pass with a whopping score of 91% on global knowledge of Canadian affairs. The United Kingdom scored the lowest at just 17%. Perhaps Americans are realizing that we are neighbours and they should know more about us since we do contribute to global issues. I know that when I was in school in my younger days I learned more about American history that I did about Canadian.

Canada is beautiful and diverse!!
Most people surveyed from other countries ranked Canada as high on the nature lover’s list, as Canada has a lot to offer in that regard. What a beautiful country we live in, we are so lucky. Another factor high on the list was that Canada was viewed as offering great quality of life. New residents frequently said that they came to Canada because of the attractive economics. They believe that there are good jobs here along with a good living and future. One lady from Mexico said that there was a very noticeable difference between the poor and the rich in her country but here the social life was different. The example of the CEO swimming in the same pool as the bus driver was used. She said you would never see that in her country. We really are a diverse culture here in Canada.

Canada is leader in working toward human rights and peace in the world
Most Americans and other nations felt that Canada was a strong leader in the this regard people surveyed said they felt comfortable about being able to practice their religions freely in Canada. Canadians felt the same but didn't feel the judicial system was the best in the world. Canadians also seemed to be very proud of the strong social services Canada offered.

Keep Canada what it is Canada...
Many of the people surveyed including Canadians thought that Canada seems to do whatever the United States want them to do. I think that no matter how close our countries seem to be, Canada will always be distinct from the United States. Our multiculturalism practices alone would put that thought to rest. There are many differences and we should be happy and proud to be a resident of Canada. We are truly blessed here in so many ways. I agree with the lady from Mexico who said that Canadians take for granted what we have here that a lot of other countries don't offer.

Dion accuses Tories of having hidden agenda on death penalty

2007-11-18T16:17:00.000-08:00

Is Canada headed toward implementing the death penalty?
I’m not sure I agree with the above statement or necessarily agree with Doin’s accusations that the Tories have a hidden agenda on the death penalty. Yes, in Canada there is no death penalty and there is a lot of crime and hateful crimes happening here. I am not claiming to be a fan of capital punishment especially since in the past few years there have been more than a few cases that proved authorities had the wrong person for crimes committed long ago. These people lost a majority of their lives in jail serving time for something they did not do. If you are deemed guilty in this country, you could spend up to a life sentence in a jail. This is a cost paid for by the taxpayer and it doesn’t come cheap. I just heard that the government spends more money on sustaining the jail system than they do for native programs. The numbers seem higher for the native programs but almost half of the money goes to administrative costs and fees, lawyers etc. Ronald Smith is a Canadian charged with 2 counts of murder because he killed 2 Montana men. He was hitch hiking and the men picked him up. He ended up kidnapping them and wanted their car so he took them both behind bushes and shot them execution style.

Respecting the law of the land….
Countries have laws that even if you don’t agree with must be respected. If you don’t respect another country for their laws, you should pay the price. If visiting another country that has capital punishment, you as a visitor should not be doing anything that can put you in death row position. This doesn’t mean we are headed towards reinstating the death penalty here in Canada. It really tells me that the government feels that Smith is guilty of his crime. It is also true that we are multicultural and we respect other traditions and laws. We practice our own here and others practice their own elsewhere.

Where do you draw the line?
Not reaching out for a fellow Canadian confined to another country in a prison is unfortunate but we would be defending someone who committed an indefensible crime. He would end up coming back to Canada and spending the rest of his life in prison for his crime, a crime he committed while in a foreign land that allows capital punishment. I think that if the government reaches out and helps Smith then that would set precedence for the future. Given the details of this case it is best to let the American authorities deal with this Canadian man.

Spin Doctors doing their thing...
I also think this is just a spin put together by Dion's people. There is an election looming so this is just the beginning of putdowns and shakeups from the opposition parties.

Read this story and decide yourself.

Nicolle Brown - Intern for Flare.com

2007-11-11T12:05:00.000-08:00

See Nicolle's video in the Internship Contest for Flare.com here.

Intern contestant adds her own flare to Flare.com...
Nicolle has done a fabulous job of capturing every aspect needed for the position of intern at Flare.com. I would definitely say she is one of the top picks for this job. She is graduating from Media Studies so she has learned a lot of Internet related material. Her video is a prime example of her acquired skills. I think her video was put together very well. She is an attractive communicator and Nicolle sells herself in a very effective way. Her video kept my attention and I think it was very well rounded.

Nicolle presented herself very well and would probably give the people who are hiring her a run for their money. She shows maturity and initiative by volunteering at a community radio station. I think it is very impressive that she programs a weekly radio show and is an on air personality. They must like her work there as she is an elected member of the Programming Committee. There is always an issue of having education without experience and having experience and not having the education. What a double-edged sword this is. I think that if Nicolle put that much effort into her video for an intern position, imagine what she’d do if she got the position and wanted to be kept on as permanent staff? I would think she’d do a fantastic job for the company.

I really liked this video and think Nicolle should be a contender for the intern position. She knows what is needed to be successful for this job and she is clearly artistic and covered many aspects of life and work pertaining to Flare.com.

Flare.com should hire this girl and help make her dreams come true!

NBC executive slams Apple for "killing music industry"

2007-11-04T11:31:00.000-08:00

Look for the article called:NBC executive slams Apple for "killing music industry"

To read this story yourself, follow this link.

Everybody wants a piece of the monetary apple pie!
First of all, I don't think the music industry is near being killed. Call me naive but the last time I checked $15M was a substaintial amount of money for a company, especially when another company has done all the creating and inititation for you. This is a small part of NBC's revenue generating inititatives. Apple has provided the means and the vehicle is in place so people are going for a different way of gathering music. I think that we are paying too much for most everything in life. Sick of being gouged in present day society everywhere you turn, consumers are looking for a break where they can get it. I don't know how many times, I've bought a cd and have liked only 1 or 2 songs on the whole thing. There are cd burners, ipods and computers so why wouldn't people make their own musical ensamble? Zucker is a big baby for whining about only getting $15M in revenue from Apple for itunes.

You stratch my back and I'll sratch yours...mmm what?!
As if NBC representative Jeff Zucker didn't sound ridiculous enough whining about the poor sales..(a measly $15M), he in no uncertain terms went over the line by complaining that Apple had not given NBC a cut of their iPod hardware sales. What the heck is going through that man's head? How did he ever get to the position of where he is? How could he even imagine that NBC deserves a cut of Apples hardware? That statement is dripping with pure greed and is totally irrational.

People seem to like it...
Although I don't have an iPod myself yet, everywhere I look I see people with them. They are much more practical for anyone who likes to exercise to music. New technology has improved and while running on the treadmil you don't have to worry about where to put your cd player. The iPod is compact and easy to handle. iTunes are affordable and I like the concept. Apple has a piece of gold in their possession. Their executives must be sitting back laughing at NBC and Zucker at this very moment. I do believe it is the consumer who ultimately continues to decide which products serve them the best.

What to do with the ex-PMs and all that pent up bile?

2007-10-28T16:33:00.000-07:00

This article can be found here.

Oh dear poor things...how dare they be treated as a common person! I really don’t have a lot of sympathy for them. I think they are lucky people who have seen the world and done many things that so many of us never will. Their handsome pensions should help keep them living life to the fullest and take care of them financially for the rest of their days here on earth. Yes, I’m sure it can be a stressful job to be in control, but if they choose to go there they will get what they deserve in the end, be it good or bad. Many leaders have gone on to do many wonderful things and maintain the respect of the masses.

Why is it some former leaders can't just use their experience in a positive way instead of living with guilty consciences and then attacking their predecessors the way they seem to do? How awful that Mulroney had to stoop so low as to say what he did about Trudeau. From what I've learned about Trudeau it seems he did pretty good for his country and himself. Mulroney said because Trudeau didn’t serve in WWII, he didn’t deserve to have a position of moral leadership. It is obvious that the Canadian people disagreed because Trudeau spent 16 years as prime minister and decided to step down on his own accord.

Most of these leaders don’t deserve to be grumpy about anything but their own actions during their role in leadership. Give me a break with this one. Be mad at yourself and clean up your own backyard before you attack someone who isn’t even living anymore and can’t defend themselves.

I really like what I read about the former prime ministers from Portugal and Italy moving on with their careers…to them I give kudos! I think that is a perfect example of what should happen. The experience that these guys gain should not be wasted. Keep them involved in some way if you can. On one condition though, that they use their knowledge in a positive way. With attitudes like of Mulroney this could prove to be damaging. Here is a man who definitely lost the respect and trust of many Canadians with his supposed bribe taking skills.

Former leaders have made a footprint in history in one way or another (good or bad) and they will not be ever totally forgotten. The choice really ends up in their hands on how they want to be remembered. It's easy to wipe out all the positive with a stupid move or stupid thing to say.

A fine tribute to Trudeau can be found here.

Sex and marriage with robots? It could happen

2007-10-21T16:28:00.000-07:00

View this article here.

I now pronounce you human and robot!?

Things never cease of amaze me! Wow, this article and theory is definitely thinking outside the box. That is the least I can say on this subject. Just try and wrap your head around the fact that humans could find true love and marriage with a robot programmed specifically to their likes. I suppose this is possible considering psychologists have identified approximately 12 basic reasons why people fall in love. Making a robot more human-like is happening and they can be programmed with similarities of preferred personality and knowledge.

It's all about the sex!

I wonder how the lady in the Withering Marriage debate (Barbara) would feel about this subject? Would she be calling single childless women selfish now? Talk about losing procreation? I don’t know for sure but I doubt they will be able to make robots fertile. I also think they can make a robot look and act like a human but they have no emotions and are definitely artificial. If not bad enough hearing someone say, my husband left me for another woman but then having to say my husband left me for a robot. As if there wasn’t enough competition in the world already. The worst part is that the robot would never feel remorse for stealing your husband away from you. With a human, there is a slight chance of someone having remorse for hurting another. Of course not all people will go out and marry a robot but there will be some who do.

Morse codes unveiled by a talented British mathematician:

Allan Toring was famous during WWII because he decoded Japanese and German algorithm and saved the free world. He became interested in mass communications and wanted public opinion. He then developed a theory and asked himself how a machine was intelligent? He said that knowledge of the self is written by experience in life. Developed an imitation game and it involved an interrogator, a woman and a man. They communicated to each other and did not see one another at all during this time. After awhile they replace one with a computer. If no one could tell when this happened then the machine would be deemed intelligent. Machines can only think and interact but cannot dance or win a beauty contest. Humans cannot match up with the cognitive ability of a computer. We program computers and the fact is people make mistakes but machines don't make mistakes. Artificial intelligence can backfire on us. Therefore you can simulate imperfect knowledge so the computer doesn't answer right.

See some mind provoking comics called: Toring Test Comics

I saw it on Nip/Tuck...

I remember watching an episode of Nip/Tuck where a character named Kimber who was a porn star developed a Kimber doll who was a remarkable likeness of her and one of the doctors had sex with the doll. He was totally having conversation with the doll and was imagining her as Kimber the human. When I watched this episode I thought how whacked is that. This is a similar concept so holywood is doing it. It is only a matter of time until it is happening everywhere else.

It seems to be a well thought of subject with articles being written and research being done. All this being said, I still think it is wacky but understand the reality of it all. Humans are willing to try anything apparently. I suspect this one to have many repercussions attached to it.

McGuinty's Liberals roll to majority

2007-10-14T15:27:00.000-07:00

Read this link yourself "McGuinty’s Liberals roll to majority" here.

Liberals stayed solid in their campaign focus

McGuinty had a simple campaign focusing on health care and education. Whether you work or have experienced being a patient within the healthcare system, you know how important funding is. The healthcare system has been on a steady decline for a long time, which became quite evident in the early 1990’s with a big crunch that is being felt even more now with an aging work force. He said he was going to enhance healthcare the last time he ran and he turned around and introduced a health tax. Education has also been a hurting sector and the same kind of financial issues apply here. The people of Ontario really want to believe there will be positive changes in these two very stressed and important sectors. I remember reading that McGuinty's wife is a teacher, so that should be a bonus for the educational system. After all, she is the love of his life!

I see many different needs in our province and I hope the liberal party will do right by the Ontario people as Mr. McGuinty stressed that this win was about the Ontario people.

What does a majority government mean for Ontario?

I think the people of Ontario are basically sick of government propaganda and broken promises. Tory may have had a chance at stopping the majority government, but as said before, the faith-based funding issue really freaked people out. If we can't sustain what we have already, then how would we fund other faith-based schools? I live in rural Ontario and have seen a steady decline in public school enrolment here. The catholic based school system has captured a majority of enrolment with the building of a brand new state of the art highschool in 2000. I agree with the fact that John Tory basically handed the election over to Dalton McGuinty when he said he was going to publicly fund other faith-based schools. That was a hot topic too hot to touch.

McGuinty was then able to use the segregation issue of our children to his advantage and win the majority vote. He sent powerful messages like “our children always play and sing together”, as well as asking the public if they wanted to segregate our children? This would be the case if the PC’s got in power. I really think this was the nail in the coffin for the Tory’s. The fact that John Tory retracted his original statement and proposed a vote in Queen's Park meant nothing to most people as the damage had already been done. With the liberals getting a majority government there will be little opposition for them and their agenda.

It's about the Ontario people...

It's up to McGuinty and his government to do the best for Ontario. Only over the next four years will we know for sure what this government will in fact do. Maybe next time we will also have a better attendance at the polls. What a shame that only 52% of people got out to cast their vote.

Whither Marriage

2007-10-07T09:11:00.000-07:00

Link for this video intereview and discussion can be viewed here.

I am not sure statistically how true this whole thing is anyways. So many people are opting out of getting that piece of paper (marriage certificate), and are living together, having a family and contributing to society just as a married couple would do. This has become an acceptable lifestyle to our society. Then you can look on the flip side. There are many couples that suffer from not being able to get pregnant. They spend thousands of dollars on fertility treatments even with the likelihood of lower percentage rates of success. That says a lot to me, especially for a society so focused on the almighty dollar. If people are going that extra mile for a baby then that has to be acknowledged. It’s a sad thing and quite a disappointment for many couples. There are also many unwanted children out there who are being adopted by couples and by single women and men. There is no definite answer to these phenomena.

Observation and thinking twice

Chastising women for not getting married and procreating is an unfair judgement. It's offending really. Great that Barbara met a supportive man and things turned out nicely for her, but the reality of it all is that it doesn’t turn out so rosy for many women out there. Saying that women are selfish for not marrying and procreating is wrong. Have you ever heard the saying, “don’t judge another person until you walked in their shoes”? In other words, you can’t say here is a pair of shoes, same size and colour for all. That is definitely not going to work for everyone because we are so individual and unique. Let's not forget that fact that it takes two to tango and I never heard any mention of the men who make choices to remain single and live life to the fullest. To me, it is sounding more and more like a double standard.

Women realize they don’t have to settle anymore just for marriage sake. Many before us have settled and made misery for not only themselves but also their partners and their children. Finding the right person is not an easy thing in this world. True courting has gone away and has been replaced with more of a fantasy cyber world. People meet on chat lines, communicate through email, SMS and phone conversations have become rare. We may have desensitized ourselves of the real contact and communicating. Making a solid connection with another is not easy in this generation. Do many of us really know what this really feels like anyways?

In this particular interview Barbara seems to be branding single women with a focus on selfishness and dishonour for being single for whatever reason there may be. If single women are such a disappointment to society, should they apologize for not getting married and having children before now? Unfortunately, many have never found a situation that led them on this path. I'm sure many of these women wish they would have met a suitable mate and gone on to have a family. Instead many continue to think positive and look for that right person and opportunity while they give back to their community by volunteering their time, working and paying their bills. My impression here is that single women are not as worthy as the women who has married and become a mother. There are too many situations and scenarios out there to even begin to think this way.

Ottawa signs on to rival emissions pact

2007-09-26T19:00:00.000-07:00

Read this article here.

There are so many difficult issues and facets to think about and deal with regarding the global warming issue. It is apparent that world leaders are now panicking, because the Kyoto target date is coming faster than the antidote to the greenhouse gas emission problems in the world. There has been so much talk about global warming over the past few years. Media, environmentalists, activist groups, public and world leaders have all preached the danger the world is in because of greenhouse gas emissions. The fact is, that we are all contributors and we all need to work together to find a plan to help lower emissions put into the autmosphere. In Ontario, our Premier decided he would help out by shutting down all coal electricity plants in Ontario. He said he would accomplish this by the year 2007, then pushed back to 2009 and has since targeted a 2014 deadline. Do you suppose there is a reason for him pushing this date back?

The rest of the world doesn't seem to be shutting down coal plants, countries like the U.S. and China are buidling more. The fact is, they are expanding, and Ontario is at risk of not only power interruption, but also job loss and decline in economy. The United States and China are building new low emission, high efficiency coal burning electricity generating plants. Coal gasification is just one of the ways to achieve this. From the old, new technologies have been re-discovered that clean up coal fired power plants and can bring down emission rates as low as that of natural gas. This conversion technique is not only being looked at for coal plants but also for manufacturing processes and the cars we drive.

The U.S. government posted an article from the U.S. Department of Energy talking about Gasification Technology.

More interesting facts on Gasification Technology can be found here.

China replacing old coal plants with new ones, read more here.

The rest of the world continues to make coal generation a major part of their future. Instead of creating problems in the long run in Ontario, the government should do what is best for Ontario and keep the continuity in our electricty program, as well as dealing with emission problems. This would mean chosing a technology that is best for our existing infastructures. There is more emission reduction technology out there that should be looked at. Examples of this technology are Selective Catalytic Reduction (SCR's) and scrubbers to clean coal and capture harmful gases before they go out the stack. Any way you look at it, it will take money to retrofit existing facilities or build new ones posing a threat to increased energy costs for Ontario.

For more information on SCR and scrubber clean coal technologies, click here.

The underlying product of these set backs in the closure of Ontario's coal burning electricity plants is the fact that coal is an essential power source in the production of elecricity. At this time, there is nothing available that is dependable enough to meet the electrical demands faced daily and replace this reliable generating power. "Pulling the plug" on coal in Ontario and taking it out of the equation will indeed, create more and more frequent blackouts and power interruptions. What does this mean to you? However, the Premier maintains continuity in his orginal statement to shut down coal fired plants by 2014. I suppose we could buy our power from the U.S. What kind of power would we be buying you say?..ahhh, coal generated power....mmmm...now that makes sense to me....NOT!

Keep in mind that there are many contributors to greenhouse gas emissions. One of the emissions that focus seems to be on right now is C02. Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't C02 something that is lapped up by trees and vegetation as a means to survive? I wonder about the deforestry of our trees and rainforests and what kind of effect this has had on our global warming issue in the world. Has this activity helped knock us off balance here? Let's look at the whole picture.

Chart provided by: Wikipedia Encyclopedida
See more about greenhouse gas here.

Newspaper ad provided by: The Tillsonburg Independent News via Power Workers Union. See more compelling examples here.

There is an obvious need to put a plan in place to clean up emissions and if all the players were on the same page, this could be easier to accomplish than we think.

Should your daughter get the HPV vaccine?

2007-09-23T19:12:00.000-07:00

After reading this article, many things come to mind regarding this issue. There are some valid opinions expressed and many sides to look at here. Empathy definitely needs to take precedence as well as some sympathy because of people who were directly involved by having loved ones lose their lives to cervical cancer.

I am blown away by the fact that young girls in Grade 6 are being exposed to sexual matters, but it is transparent to this day and age. Life seems to become a way of adulthood at much earlier ages these days. It is scary that the virus is so obviously rampant in our present day society. The medical experts say this is one of the most common STD's, and they have advised giving the vaccine to girls before they become sexually active. This tells me that we are dealing with an epidemic of some kind. The government wouldn't be investing $300M in tax dollars to fund such a program, if it weren't a major problem. There must be some reflection on treatment costs and the number of cases. Yes, the pharmaceutical companies are winning again, but they are just the lucky souls that discovered a way to help human kind buy time and save health issues.

I would definitely say it would be wise to give the vaccination to help stop the infection of future generations. In general, I don't think that it promotes promiscuity. It's all about values of people and we are all different in that department. There are too many individual behaviours and other STD's to worry about not to think about safe sex (condom use).

Given the fact that long term effects are not proven yet because the vaccination is so new, I would still recommend giving it. Clinical studies proved outstanding results in the protection from most HPV viruses. There are 4 types and this virus is responsible for 70% of cervical cancer and 90% of genital warts.

Another thing that comes to mind is what happens to the girl who ends up with the HPV infection and gets genital warts or cervical cancer and has to undergo treatment and humilliation knowing that she now has a STD? This could very well in some cases, affect the persons self esteem, self perception and give them a feeling of inadequance. Why not keep these issues at bay?

Read this article yourself and see what you think.

Hello World

2007-09-13T16:21:00.000-07:00